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Survivor of Cambodia's darkest days finds solace in Longview library

Sangvar Tan

Survivor of Cambodia's darkest days finds solace in Longview library

 
The Daily News | March 24, 2014

Her little brothers starved to death in Cambodia in the 1970s, and her father was executed by the Khmer Rouge.

She battles diabetes and lupus and spends 12 hours a day hooked to a dialysis machine.

But Longview resident Sangvar Tan, 62, still comes to the Longview Public Library for an hour twice a week for tutoring in math, reading and writing and hopes to one day earn her GED.

“I like to come here. They help me all the time,” Tan said last week after her tutoring session in the library’s Project Read adult literacy section. “When I stay home, I don’t know what to do, and I’m still very sick.”

Tan, who moved to the United States in 1982 and earned her U.S. citizenship in 1995, is the library’s unofficial ambassador at her English-as-a-second-language classes at Lower Columbia College. When she meets immigrants from Vietnam, Laos, China and Cambodia — many of whom also survived the Khmer Rouge, she takes them to the Longview Library to sign up for one-on-one tutoring.

“They can come here and get help,” she said.

Tan was born in Cambodia in 1962. Within a decade, her country — bordered by Thailand, Laos and Vietnam — would be ripped apart by civil war. When the Khmer Rouge took over the government in 1975, the communist group of guerilla fighters executed her father, a customs officer, during a purge of government officials and intellectuals. Aiming to build a farming-based communist utopia, the Khmer Rouge destroyed food sources, evacuated cities and forced Cambodians to the countryside, resulting in widespread famine and starvation.

In 1977, Tan’s brothers, ages 6 and 8, died “because there was no food to eat,” she said.

In all, as many as three million people died during the Cambodian genocide, which lasted until the Khmer Rouge’s fall from power in 1979.

That year, the 17-year-old Tan, her two sisters and her mother escaped to Thailand on foot. There, her mother sold pineapples and bananas, and Tan earned money hauling water from the river in two buckets suspended from a stick across her shoulders.

After two years in Thailand, the family moved to the Philippines, where Tan attended school and learned some English (she’d had only four years of schooling in Cambodia). When Tan was 21, her mother obtained a refugee visa to the United States, and they moved to Jacksonville, Fla., in 1982.

Tan soon decided to visit a friend in Longview for a few months. In Longview, she met her future husband, an immigrant named Chun Chan Tan who arrived in Longview in 1975 and worked at Longview Fibre. The couple brought Sangvar Tan’s mother and sister to Longview and then married Dec. 24, 1982. They had four daughters.

Chun Chan Tan, who was born in Cambodia to Chinese parents and spoke Chinese, English and Cambodian, encouraged his new wife to take English classes at LCC. After she earned her citizenship in 1995, Sangvar Tan heard about the Longview Library’s adult literacy programs and began studying math with a tutor.

If she hadn’t gotten sick, Tan said she would have earned her high-school equivalency diploma a long time ago. But now her English tutoring is even more necessary — she needs to be able to understand her doctors’ instructions.

Athough her neighbors, Linda and Paul Ratte, have been helping her, Tan increasingly must rely on herself. Chun Chan Tan died in 2010 of liver problems, and her last remaining daughter at home, 21-year-old Christina, soon will begin school at the University of Washington, where she will study physical therapy.

Only two of Tan’s daughters speak fluent Cambodian. The younger daughters understand some things in Cambodian but reply to Tan in English because they don’t speak much of the language.

In her 20s, Tan was diagnosed with lupus, an autoimmune disease, and then with Type I diabetes. Later, she was diagnosed with Type II diabetes, requiring insulin injections. Three years ago, she had a cancerous kidney removed. Now she undergoes dialysis — a process for filtering waste and extra water from the blood — seven days a week.

“If someone doesn’t speak English, it’s hard to do dialysis,” Tan said. “You don’t know how to read directions.”

In December, her name will be added to a kidney transplant list.

But meanwhile, she’ll continue coming to the library twice a week when she feels well enough to get out of bed. It makes her happy to see her tutors Tami Tack and Diane Strozyk and adult literacy coordinator Elizabeth Partridge, she said.

Also, Tan added, “I don’t want to stay home. I watch TV too much.”






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