Helping children thrive doesn’t mean providing the best toys or the most expensive gadgets, though. Quite the opposite; learning happens when children create their own play worlds. A child who sees a ruler and a pen and turns them into an airplane is often using more of her imagination and stimulating more of her brain than a child who is handed an already-put-together toy. “Play is the major vehicle for children to learn,”
The Complex Lives of Babies
A new documentary explores how early experiences drive development.
The Atlantic | 20 June 2016
The idea that new
babies are empty vessels waiting to be filled with knowledge of the
world around them doesn’t sound unreasonable. With their unfocused eyes
and wrinkly skin, tiny humans sometimes look more like amoebas than
complex beings.
Yet scientists have built a body
of evidence, particularly over the last three decades, that suggests
this is patently untrue. “When kids are born, they’re already little
scientists exploring the world,” said the filmmaker Estela Renner via a
video conference from Brazil before a recent screening of her new
documentary The Beginning of Life (streaming on Netflix) at the World Bank in Washington, D.C.
That’s
something Renner, a Brazilian mother of three, discovered as she spoke
with early-childhood experts and parents in nine countries around the
world about the impact a child’s environment in the first few years of
life has on not only her physical development, but her cognitive,
social, and emotional development, too. “I didn’t know that kids were
not blank slates,” she said. “It changed the way I look at babies.” If
more people recognized that fact, the way communities and policymakers
think about and invest in the early years of life might be different.
Exquisitely
shot and hopeful-without-being-sugary, the film focuses on the
day-to-day lives of babies and parents and on the opportunities for
learning in even the most mundane activities. “Babies are the best
learning machines in the universe,” Alison Gopnik, a psychology
professor who has spent decades studying child development, said in the
documentary. “They’re the world’s original inventors,” echoed Patricia
Kuhl, the co-director of the University of Washington Institute for
Learning and Brain Sciences.
As an adult, just
watching a baby who is on the verge of crawling is exhausting. Again and
again, he’ll try to rock and wiggle his way forward, tapping into a
seemingly endless supply of determination. Give a toddler a spoon and
she’ll drop it from her high chair over and over, testing to make sure
it clatters each time and watching for her mom to pick it up and hand it
back. “There’s this inborn drive for mastery,” said Jack Shonkoff, the
director of the Center on the Developing Child at Harvard University.
These moments are crucial for development, and parents and the other
children and adults who make up a child’s world have an enormous role in
creating an environment where children have both the freedom and
support to learn.
"That love is an important part of the economy."
Consider
a father preparing breakfast for his toddler. It’d be easy, faster,
certainly, to strap the baby into a high chair and tune out the babble
for a few minutes. But give the kid an empty bowl and a spoon and he’ll
create a whole imaginary meal alongside his dad, offering sample
“tastes.” Ask what kind of sauce he’s making and maybe, like one tyke in
the film, he’ll offer up “mango” as a reply.
Children
with high self-esteem who feel loved and supported are willing to try
new things and to fail a lot in the process, said Andrew Meltzoff,
Kuhl’s co-director at the Institute for Learning and Brain Sciences,
because they know they’ll be safe. Even preschoolers who shout “no” at
tired parents are testing the supportive boundaries of their
environments. Where people often suggest that toddlers, given their
frenetic tendencies, have trouble paying attention, in reality, they
have trouble not paying attention. Everything piques their
senses, from the sight of a passing car, to the soft fur of a dog, to
the sizzle bacon makes when it hits a hot pan. They need help
processing, but also the physical and mental space to take it all in.
Like
all people, if babies feel rooted in a community, if they feel a sense
of belonging, they are more willing to explore and take risks that help
them learn precisely because they know they have someplace and someone
who serves as an anchor. The support they feel or don’t feel in the
early years influences what they expect from the world around them in
the years to come.
The first few years of brain
development might be equated to the construction of the frame of a
house, said Charles Nelson, who has studied how early experiences impact
brain and behavioral development. Just as a house can’t stand without a
sturdy frame, a child is unlikely to thrive without a supportive
environment in the early years. Kids who spend their babyood in loving
and enriching environments are more likely to stay in school and become productive adults.
They are likely to be healthier. But when babies don’t have adults who
engage with them, pathways in the brain that form a child’s “frame” can
disintegrate. Similarly, when babies see bad behavior, say their parents
fighting, they are more likely to think that behavior is the
appropriate way to resolve a conflict because it’s what they know.
Helping
children thrive doesn’t mean providing the best toys or the most
expensive gadgets, though. Quite the opposite; learning happens when
children create their own play worlds. A child who sees a ruler and a
pen and turns them into an airplane is often using more of her
imagination and stimulating more of her brain than a child who is handed
an already-put-together toy. “Play is the major vehicle for children to
learn,” Shonkoff said.
While the film is not
explicitly political and is intended for a wide audience, it does point
out that children thrive when they have parents who have time and
resources to devote to their upbringing. Right now, the United States is
one of the only countries that does not offer paid maternity leave and
few fathers are able to take paternity leave, meaning many babies often
spend just a few waking hours with their parents. A 2013 Pew Research Center report
found that in dual-income households, mothers spend about 12 hours per
week on childcare, where fathers spend only about seven. And while no
one in the film is criticizing working parents, the documentary does
point out that parents who are able to cultivate strong relationships
with their children are ultimately helping shape more productive adults.
“That love is an important part of the economy,” said the economist
James Heckman.
But it’s not always viewed that
way, with employers frequently expecting parents to return to the
working world quickly and to work inflexible schedules that make
parenting well difficult. Although the film does make note of this, its
focus is primarily on parents and families, not on specific policies
that might help people be good parents. While “children are not raised
by government, they’re raised by people,” Shonkoff said, he also pointed
out that governments need to support people who are raising children.
And people raising children need to care about the future of more than
just their own child. The future of society quite literally depends on
it.
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